Low cost date ideas that aren’t coffee dates is a must for every arsenal. Since the classic coffee date is officially dead. Women hate it, and honestly, can you blame them? What used to be a low-pressure way to meet up has turned into a glorified, lukewarm job interview. But here’s the dilemma: guys don’t want to drop $200 on dinner for someone they might never speak to again, and women want to feel like a guy actually gives a damn.